Tuesday 19 September 2006

Songket & Sahabat



I'm gonna be wearin a piece of fabric that celebrates my true Malay identity for my first day of Aildilfitri tis year, insya Allah. No organza, no sari, no chinese or vietnam cheongsam fusion dresses, no laces ...its me & my Kebaya Songket. somethin abt tis fabric that juz exudes grandeur...but sometimes, it can be pretty gawdy. well it all depends on the amount of motifs and weavin. i'm lovin mine (i had one last year but tis year's nicer..*hee angkat bakul!!*) i hope it brings out the Elegance of a Malay Woman/"Keanggunan Wanita Melayu" in me...hehehe! the colour's somethin like what the Barbie's wearin...Royal Turquoise with Gold Hibiscus motifs! Wheeeee~


Image taken from http://kattisdoll.net




"Songket belongs to the brocade family of textiles. It is a rich, luxurious, ceremonial fabric, handwoven in silk or cotton, and intricately patterned with gold (and sometimes silver) threads which stand out in subtle relief on the background cloth. The interplay of light and gentle shadow on the fabric creates a gorgeous shimmering effect, making it undoubtedly, the 'queen' of handwoven fabrics."

So much for hypin up abt the clothes and Aidilfitri, what has to be in focus right now is welcomin the holy month of Ramadhan! i'm done with my "trial runs" so am now anticipatin for the real deal. Hopefully tis year, i'll make some progress in the "Amal & Ibadah" department, i pray the same for my fellow Muslim brothers & sisters, and let us not be among those whom Rasulullah saw mentioned in a hadith, who
fast but get nothing from their fast except hunger and thirst, and those who pray at night get nothing from it except wakefulness. Let tis month be full of Blessings for us all in facin adversities & temptations....

To end tis entry, let me juz share a lil bit what i heard from Surau Kampung Melayu while waitin for my mum to complete her prayers last Sunday. An ustaz was givin a lecture abt how Muslims are no terrorists, that we should deal with every bad thing hurled to us with patience and not with violence. He mentioned how Rasulullah saw dealed with insults and violations of the Jews & Arab pagans...never once did he demonstrated against them, nor did he seek revenge. What he does was pray & deal with situations with ALOT of patience, faith & rational moves. We Muslims in tis era, should be doin that too, every time a lil misconception abt Islam is bein spread like wildfire! We outta fight those with exemplary behaviours not flamin anger. Somethin to remember, or maybe to inspire, in conjunction with the comin of Ramadhan, also from the same lecture...

The Sahabat's (Prophet Muhammad's saw Companions) Life Principle:

Live Respectably, Die for the Cause of God.
Hidup Mulia, Mati Syahid.


Insya Allah....

To those still in "trial-runs"...Fight On, to the rest of my Muslim multiply contacts...Salam Ramadhan!





26 comments :

  1. salam ramadhan to u too!

    and i agree, the songket, altho simple as compared to lace, is the best way to wear urself as a malay during raya.... wanna see ur songket kebaya soon!!

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  2. thanx Aza!
    yeah true what u said :)
    emm my kebaya kena perap satu bulan dalam wardrobe dulu...cannot show now, nanti tak ada seri raya. hehehe!

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  3. The problem with people these days,they lack of patience.Every little things,they get worked out so easily.Hence acted irrationally which then cause more tension.Sigh..why can't people think like me?Hah..I mean like Rasulullah saw...

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  4. yeah cos there's a rat race goin on, everythin is goin in a crazy, blindin chop, chop pace so people have no time to be patient, esp. in our generation??
    *shrug shrug*

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  5. i love songket............make it into a kebaya..with kerongsang! weeewit, girl, u r sure a headturner!

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  6. Salam Ramadhan to u too Supi..
    May during this time the world is more peaceful and the people do their best in 1 of the Rukun Islam.

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  7. Selamat menyambut bulan Ramamdhan to Sophie and all. Wah..i bet you'll look superbly good this raya =)
    Its turqouise aye? Lovely =)

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  8. Salam Ramdhan Kakak!

    Anywayz, I love songket. And guess what? I was thinking of turqouise this year. Ahakz~ But I'm thinking more of laces. Yer lah tu.... Puasa pun belom. hehhehe...

    Anywayz, will be looking forward to meeting u at Mak Long's House on the 1st day in ur songket!

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  9. Salam Ramdhan to u too kak supi..
    i already have 4 bajus..mostly laces..ehehe..weeeeeeeeeee~~~

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  10. hehe exchange...last year me laces, u songket...tis year terbalik!

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  11. glitterluxe: yep...i'll try to find kerongsang to go along with it.

    prodigic: Insya Allah...i pray the same too :)

    deesdaily: yeahh turqouise, i haven't worn that colour for very loooong.

    sitz: wear ah...boriah with me. heheh! insya Allah we'll meet@Mak Long's.

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  12. haha..i hope i'll look pretty this year..~

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  13. songket seyy! I also have lahh but dunno wat to do wif it. anyway selamat berpuasa! I am sure u n liz n sitz will be the glowing "boriah" couzins during hari raya.

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  14. i imagine you with that songket and nice kerongsang and long hair...peeeeweeeeeeeeet...Jambus! wat about you bun up your hair and pin it up with a flower? hehehe.. suweeeeeeeeeet!
    Selamat menunaikan ibadah puasa kekangwan! =)

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  15. Yippeeee!!! Me same2 too!!! Its gonna be a kebaya songket too.... :)

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  16. peanutgal: dunno wat to do with it? WEAR it! i'm sure u look gorgeous in songket, alah not only songket, sari also confirm punye!!

    ladyjenna: yeah 3 days to Awal Ramadhan!

    badawiyah: hee actually i was also thinkin abt bunnin up my hair n stickin a flower in it...mcm zaman2 dulu-dulu...mak inang jln melenggang...ewahhh...hahaha!

    hayabusababe: alrite lah!! same same!! sure anggun punye!!

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  17. Easy said beb, kena cucuk ngan syaitan. I think u r talking abt people's reaction to the Pope's accidental words. Actually I had wanted to blog about that too. It saddens me to see how Muslims in other country react. It was as if they are so perfect. I heard a nun was killed too. Innalilah.. Dah akhir zaman. At the end of the day, it's the Muslims yang jatuhkan maruah Islam. Not the Christians nor the Jews. Sigh..

    Anyway, I wore songket also last year. This year still haven'tgo shopping. Macam malas gitu.

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  18. hmm sort of i'm hintin at that as well as livin life in general. i really feel sorry for the nun and burnt churches elsewhere in the world. tis kinda happenings are against our Prophet's teachings. He (Prophet Muhammad saw) would be so so sad lookin at what God mentioned abt umat akhir zaman manifest in our era.

    yups, i think i saw ur pic wearin songket with a selendang cross the shoulder last year...manis sekali..ala 70/80s!

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  19. i wore songket 2wice during my event, a sari once and also silk... during the whole tme, only another of a friend of mine were that culturally devoted.. the rest of the orgnisers are more obsessed with western bajus.... its a real dissapointment truly.... I dont say that iam those crazy patriotic malays.. i am one that try to hide myself to be a malay- but when it comes to baju.... eh..... I am so proud of it, its amazinG! :)

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  20. haha the effect of globalisation? modernization? oh well but sometimes it feels good to return to our roots, for a change. i think hari raya is the best time to flaunt it!

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  21. Laces?!? U girls wear laces on hari raya?!!? When i hear laces i think lingerie!!

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  22. Ok wat.. Lacy clothes.. If u cant flaunt your skin, at least tease.. Red will be preferable..

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