Hehe I went thru the scenario juz now and it kinda inspired me to ask both u gurls and guys regardin tis issue. Do feel free to reply and share ur opinions. Tis is interestin 
Scenario:
Got on a bus, it was pretty crowded. I moved all the way to the back and bf stood next to me. I realised he was towerin over tis gurl, who is wearin a pretty low neck camisole wif ahem, of course, an ample cleavage. She got kinda squirmy when she saw bf was standin over her especially with his phone in his hand and then another guy stood nxt to my bf later but she tried to maintain her cool.
Now 2 questions for each gurl and guy:
For gurls, what would ur respond be if u catch ur hubby/bf stealin glances at the missy's cleavage, whose bra seems to be a lil loose and he could see her lil bits of ahem ahem?
and wat if u r caught in the same scenario, how would u react? would u play it cool since u got it, might as well flaunt it OR would u find means and ways to cover ur bossom?
For guys, do u think it is robbin the girl's modesty or does she deserves such attention or do u find it irritating if u can't help but look at her cleavage?
wat if ur gf/wife is caught in such a situation, do u mind if other guys steal glances at ur wife's/gf's boobylicious cleavage?
What Say U?
(oi quit staring, answer me! *LoL*)
Pic of Eva taken from Strangecosmos.com
Sweetheart, at my age I have seen enough titties and gash to the point where unless it's something unusual, I don't stare at all....
ReplyDeleteHonestly when it happens, it just happens. U just lucky that Iyuan is straight thinking and not oogle at hot trunk guys. Its nature Supi girl. We guys appreciate the art of women! Of coz its not robbing her modesty if its only a glance.. If its more, I think the girl will haf the rite to "cover" herself, unless of coz, she loves the attention!
ReplyDeleteDia tengok je pe... Bukannye dia pegang. Anyway, don't feel threaten by that fact.. Lumrah manusia, we also look at guy's butt, aight. You can't help it. For me seriously, nothing much to show but if I got also, I can't flaunt it. Nak kena maki ngan bapak ke keluar umah pakai sexy-sexy. Right now also he's been nagging me to start wearing tudung again.
ReplyDeleteeyy u guys didn't answer the second Qs.
ReplyDeleteI would continue scrutinizing the situation with my bf...hahahaha...I thing is i dont have anything to flaunt...but i think any decent lady would check out herself before going out..i mean if ur clothes is revealing, then one should be aware of such situation and try to cover up...but hey..some ppl just cannot be bothered....
ReplyDeleteI dun need to worry abt that!!
ReplyDeleteOk even if my gf doesnt wear tudung and has nice assets, there's nothing much I can do abt it rite? I cant make it smaller or wat. If it happens, I'll just drag her away from all the "limelight". What they see is the outside, but I get to see the inside!!
Yes, I did:).
ReplyDeleteahaha dee, u r juz as mean as the two of us!!*LoL*
ReplyDeletehafiz: yeah lah ur gf wear tudung, she won't face such problem...her precious bossoms are safe in ur hands. oops...sounds crude man!
sean: okie...was referrin to the other to actually. btw, i never knew ur age man. juz how old r u mate?
Supi, jeles eh? kikiki..jeles maknanya cinta!
ReplyDeleteIyuan!! Sophie loves you! Awwww!!! hehe...
Qns: For gurls, what would ur respond be if u catch ur hubby/bf stealin glances at the missy's cleavage, whose bra seems to be a lil loose and he could see her lil bits of ahem ahem?
Ans: I would do the same as Dee! If I saw first, then I would ask him to see also, rather than I caught him oggling behind my back. Talk abt it with bf and ask his opinion. Would love to know what men think.
Qns: and wat if u r caught in the same scenario, how would u react? would u play it cool since u got it, might as well flaunt it OR would u find means and ways to cover ur bossom?
Ans: Never would I at the first place flaunt it. If I did too and found someone oggling at me and didn't like, it would be my fault to show it. But girls love to show it off sometimes. Zaman muda-mudi. Zaman germilang! hahaha...
Qns: For guys, do u think it is robbin the girl's modesty
Ans: No, she asks for it!
Qns: or does she deserves such attention
Ans: She seeks it!
Qns: or do u find it irritating if u can't help but look at her cleavage?
Ans: Irritatingly yes. So just see lor. In front of you already mah.
Qns: wat if ur gf/wife is caught in such a situation, do u mind if other guys steal glances at ur wife's/gf's boobylicious cleavage?
If I were a husband/bf, I won't let my wife/gf wear such clothes. Someone who has great assets, dont have to flaunt it. It just 'shine'.. hehe.. "Beauty" is in the eye of the beholder. Models yang ada small bossoms pun lelaki tengok! Apa nak buat dah lumrah manusia. Perempuan pun sama. I admit that I look at guy's buttsies too. What to do, they just caught your attention..hehe..
Walau apa gudaan yang datang, you tak akan rasa tergugat punya kalau you have trust and faith in your relationship. Dunia ada macam2 jenis manusia. Gua tak heran lah beb, kalau satu hari nanti pompan/laki bogel jalan kat streets! Tak nak tengok, ternampak jugak.. hehe..
If bf oggle jer kat T pompan tu tak lepas2, pendek kata satu sepak jugak ada kena kat muka dia!
tak jealous lahh but doesn't mean i dun love my bf ok...we were even discussin n gigglin abt it! the two of us were juz so engrossed,cos the gurl pakai earphone...dunno did she hear our conversation tak. wahhh i lurve ur answers! very complete siap dgn humour!!! *tersengeh saya di depan komputer tempat kerja ni*
ReplyDeleteBest best!
She seeks it the attention.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn let my wife wear such revealing clothes.
U know, pandangan pertama, rezeki. Yang kedua ketiga Haram. *taps fingers on e table and dance to Hung Up*
Anyway i feel girls who wear these kind of revealing clothes are so pathetic. Why do they need this kind of validation to their self esteem?
No matter how u cover up, if u are sexy, u are sexy k.
Those who reveal are just cheap.
Once eh, when i went kuliah somewhere years back, ada this girl pakai burqa, tall and slim i think. Dressed in black.
But she has one pair of mesmerising eyes! And i looked back and steal glances at her even when she was covered from head to toe with jilbab/burqa somemore! Now tats a girl oozing with sexiness!
*DANCE*
wahaha.... oh man... that sure did not come out the way you meant it i hope. haha... *winkz*
ReplyDeleteErrr i dunno how to answer dat, i juz wear wat i feel like wearin tho some of the items in my closet doesn't get approval from my parents. in fact, throwin out those will be my mum's pleasure.
ReplyDelete"Those who reveal are just cheap."
huh?? *like dat i also in cheap category*hmmm
Wat Wak Taqi meant was that in Islam terms u dun need to wear less cloth to look good. Being "cheap" means, u cant afford to buy more cloth. Dun take it too hard ok Supi.. *winkz*
ReplyDeleteAiyo Madame.
ReplyDeleteUr topic of discussion is abt revealing clothes thus nampak cleavage kan?
Bila u wear revealing clothes? Urs still considered sopan what.
Or maybe u did wear but i didn notice?
*ponders*
ehh tube top not considered revealing ke?
ReplyDeletehehe u didn't notice cos my hair's bigger than my boobs! *LMAO*
OOOO si dia ni rupanya Wak Taqi!!!! the fact above i also noe dah.... hmmm...but it's really typical of the girls in singapore to wear camisoles/spaghetti tops around esp. non-muslim. it's like a must have esp. for lotsa gurls out there.
ReplyDeleteSingapore hot mah.. Anyway, its up to people what they wanna wear. For me basically i prefer comfort and sometimes kalau terpakai baju revealing sikit I felt uncomfortable maybe because tak biasa. For them they wear camisole maybe because they are used to it.. Its true that we need not wear less cloth to look good. It is how you carry the clothes. Kalau the person have self-confident in herself, she wear some cheap clothes from THIS FASHION also can also bring out her sexiness.
ReplyDeleteBoobies....
ReplyDeleteWell, here's what i have got to say....
Tell your bf, instead of STEALING glances at those twin-peaks, ask you along for the look-and-see session. I used to be so offended when i caught Zul looking at women's boobies but his argument is quite true.... he looks at all that's available but his hands will only touch one pair... hehe.... so now, I will be the one spotting boobs and other hills and mountains of a lady for both of us to look, comment and learn.... haha....
As for us girls, i guess if we wanna flaunt our assets, be it boobies or booties, be sure that the bra fits perfectly and that the tag on the g-string does not show...... and of coz don't get angry if anyone, guy or girl looks at you repeatedly. If you are dressed suggestively, what do you expect them to look at? Your shoes??? Duh!
Wat June said true mah..
ReplyDeleteI think it's quite natural for guys to look.It's his lucky day i guess. Who knows, maybe she wanted the attention as well. Haha!! (sings Geri Halliwell's look at me).
ReplyDeleteWell as for me ah.. u know lah im quite a shy gal....there's no way im giving a free show.So yea i would find ways to cover up...
teeheehee...june u also a meanie ah! anyways i also share the same opinion as u, i dun see why we gurls should get so worked out if our guys glance at boobies that are on free show, i also will get distracted. juz DON't STARE...dats RUDE & NOT KewL. and pls prevent urselves from droolin.
ReplyDelete"If you are dressed suggestively,what do you expect them to look at? Your shoes???Duh!"
*LMAO* they can try....but they can't!! Wahahahhaa!!
hey nitzz, u dun have to give free show also ppl look at u lah...esp when u dress up and wear ur punjabi suit. wah wah....like bollywood star like dat!
ReplyDeleteThumbs up to you bro!!
ReplyDeleteYup, sexiness in a woman is how she carries herself... regardless of what she wears... if she has perfect boobs, flawless legs and a bootilicious behind.... whats the point if she has bad breath?
It would be so much sexier if she is neatly dressed, sits up tall, speaks confidently and laughs to her hearts content.... that is sexy.... boobs, alah, i am sure guys these days don't find boobs amusing anymore....
d-_-b .. if i had my bow from warcraft i would shoot u with a concussive shot. *bweek*haha. Ok i make this CLEAR. I dont "steal" glances..not worth it. If wanna see just SEE. Sampai puas. 2nd i DO ask Sophie along eh...ask her...i confirm 100% plus great singapore sale offer, that she will agree ( Hold my bow up to Sophie). Right?!? Hehehe....And ah..forget it..sounding like i'm defending meself...which im not by the way...(readying my bow once more a for a Scatter Shot, incase of a backlash) hehehe....Senbonzakura KageYoshi..........
ReplyDeletefirst thing first, lets talk about respecting the feeling of our better half aka gf/bf/wife/hubby...nobody likes to feel that they are second best in many ways.
ReplyDeleteeven tho staring at the boobs under such "fortunate" situation can be considered petty, the lucky chap can always swap places with the gf or ask his gf to stand and face the other way round instead of having the beautiful panorama during the whole journey. its boils down to our own integrity.
secondly, we cant penalise those who flaunt their assets. its their freedom of choice. but they can always gracefully tag along something like a shawl or cardigan to camoflage their assets in such undesirable situation.
to stare or not to stare....guys are always and will always be, attracted to breasts...very complex.
Correct! How can we not be! Damn if had breats i will stare at them always! Hahaha
ReplyDeleteWanna stare at mine? They'll be lost... eventually.. Hahaha
ReplyDeleteMake sure they do or I'll win.. Muahahaha...
ReplyDeletehmmm no comment...keh keh keh
ReplyDeleteeh u...can make up ur mind or not? Night Elf or Shinigami? hmmm...makin me giddy only.
Man Boobs Alert!!! *LMAO*
ReplyDeleteyeah u better rid those breasts and have urself a chest instead in 6 mths time! u juz reminded me abt the "fish boobs" moments! basket! haha
true true...juz like us girls, we juz can't help gettin attracted to shoes/undies/shopping....an inevitable fact. heheh
ReplyDeleteSO TRUE!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteOre wa Jutsu weilding Elf with an ability to transform to a kick ass Shinigami...So wat i do is set a frost trap, shot my bow, Kage bunshin no-jutsu(to confuse the enemy), then unseath my zanpakutou and mouth those words..."Chiize Senbonzakura" or "Getsuga Tenshou" ! answer ur question now?
ReplyDeleteKau.. 3-in-1.. Dah macam milo mix..
ReplyDeletekalau gitu tak original lagik babe.. Must create new "jutsu"
wahh seyyy Fusion abis ni....abih keris taming sari tak mau add sekali to ur weapons collection?? Hahahah...mesye, mesye....{{huGs}}
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