Friday 14 August 2009

It was worth it while it lasted

I couldn't agree more with Dee.

It pains to see people fall out especially knowing that things actually could have been mended by a simple thing called COMMUNICATION. I think this is by far, the most important thing in any relationship. The loss of such leads to no trust, no love & what was once somethin beautifully lively & inspiring end up becomin somethin so painful to swallow & to bear.

I may sound a tad harsh but i guess what is there left to hold on to when there is no room for an honest conversation between 2 persons, who despite caring for each other they just cannot communicate further? and what friendship can grow from toxic assumptions & hearin from naysayers without a need of understanding each other & tryin to see beyond each others' faults & weaknesses?

If only initiatives were put to good use. if only fear & self-interest were less of a hindrance. if only...nevertheless, que sera sera....



10 comments :

  1. well-said babe.communication is the essential in bonding with each other

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  2. if only...que sera sera
    It was worth as long as it lasted....((hugs))
    Lets promise that this wont happen to us. (hugs)
    Anything i dont like i will say, anything that bothers u, u will say ok?

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  3. insya Allah my lesbo...i definitely don't want anythin painful to happen between us.
    u noe me babe, i'd rather trash things out, get in perspective than keep things swept under rug & be misunderstood.
    ((hug))

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  4. a word to the wise is sufficient.

    sometimes silence in itself speaks volume

    but then again I am a loner virgo ;p

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  5. sometimes silence cause more misintepretion than give a clear sign
    indeed only the wise mindreader would understand
    others would be left paralysed with a hangin feelin with such a stance.

    i miss u, my babe!





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  6. and this loner aries will hook up pretty soon wif this loner virgo to Batam n Jogya..woot!

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  7. wahhhh! banyak korang punye loner lah!
    hehehe nice! when when?

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  8. wooohoo!!
    lucky not in nov!
    hope the plan takes off! gee i really didn't noe u ladies are in contact..nice :)

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