Thursday 30 August 2007

A Pitch Black Affair for September Stars...

September Stars' Choice of Movie

Thank You For Smoking
 
 1

Back to the Future
 
 0

Bujang Lapok
 
 1

Apocalypto
 
 4

Enemy At the Gates
 
 1

Indiana Jones
 
 0

Kill Bill
 
 1

An American Wedding (finale of American Pie series)
 
 0


 

Hey hey people!

September's comin again..and it's time to Party Up before Ramadhan comes!

Tis year, instead of a BBQ, we'll be havin a private Movie time out at Pitch Black Cafe! There'll be free flowin popcorns & nachos & finger food & drinks!

Juz relax, mingle & catch a movie together!

Dearest September stars, your guests have come up with a bunch of movies that you can choose from and we will be joinin you to catch the movie that gets YOUR majority vote!

Please Note:

September stars- Deadline for Poll is 3rd September  (Monday).

All- Deadline for RSVP is 5th September (Wednesday).

    

Sunday 26 August 2007

Thursday 23 August 2007

Hot in Email Circulation: Muslimah Vet-in-training Posing & Touching Pigs & Doggie


I have received an email regarding this Malaysian babe who is supposedly a vet-in-training. I would not have bothered to even write abt tis if I stumbled upon these pics on the girl's blog BUT because there are muslims out there who have been putting in ugly words for this girl, just because SHE IS A MUSLIM and SHE POSE & TOUCH pigs & dogs in the pictures, I would like to highlight some things before more people start to bad-mouth her further.

PLEASE HOLD UR JUDGEMENT & STOP MAKING DEROGATORY REMARKS like tis (found in the email i received):

"sayangnyer...muka cun melecun...
kot yer pun 'bakal' jadi Dr Vet, toksah ler act macam bangga jer gitu suar...eemmm......dengan babi pun boleh main2 yer......kan binatang tuh haram!Nauuzubillah..."

Instead of viewin these ladies as Muslimahs who have a certain sense of compassion and respect for these animals, that they enjoy workin with animals and that these are most likely their "patients", they are being criticised for doing something so utterly disgusting and some people think it's shameful/wrong in an Islamic sense.

And most of us know, that if we come in contact with these animals, we are asked to clean which ever parts that touch them 7 times, the first time being with mud/soil. There is NOTHING wrong with showing ur care and concern for the pigs and dogs for they are also creations of God.

So please, just because you feel it's disgusting, do not make her or her friend look like they have committed some kind of a HUGE SIN or done SOMETHIN SHAMEFUL TO ISLAM.

PLEASE have a more open mind.

And a couple of things I would like to share with you about dealing with PIGS & DOGS.

On PIGS (excerpt taken from http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503544368)

"There is an Islamic view, which states that all living animals are clean, which means we are allowed to approach them and touch them. The children are being introduced to one of the creatures of Allah and so there is no harms in that so long as the pigs are dry.

There is only one exception. Dead dogs and pigs are considered to be dirty, and we are not allowed to have anything to do with them even though on this particular point.

On DOGS (excerpts taken from http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503549696

Since in Islam dogs in general are not considered very clean animals as they can be carriers of numerous parasites, some of which may be highly harmful to humans, Islam is against adopting dogs as pets. And as most of these parasites are passed on to others through their saliva, we are told to wash the spot it has come in contact with seven times, one of which should be preferably with mud or dirt. Having said this, however, I must point out that some scholars have ruled that washing the spot with a bacterial soap will be deemed sufficient instead of using dirt or mud. While some scholars consider the entire body of a dog impure, many however are of the view that it is only its saliva that is considered impure in an absolute sense; so that is what we should stay clear of at all times.

The above ruling about the impurity of the dog in general or of its saliva in particular notwithstanding, there are certain allowances for those who are unable to avoid contact with dogs because of the nature of their job involving dogs or specific circumstances that make it hard for them to avoid direct contact with dogs. In this category can we can include farmers who keep dogs for guarding and herding cattle, etc.; blind people who need to keep dogs as guides; hunters who use trained dogs; police who employ trained dogs for investigating crimes; those who need to keep guard dogs, etc. As Imam Ibn Taymiyah has pointed out, because of the particular circumstances such people find themselves in, which make it impossible for them to stay completely clear of dogs, they are allowed certain relaxations in regards to purity and impurity associated with dogs. This is because of the general principle of taysir (ease and removal of hardship) inherent in the Shari`ah, which teaches that “wherever there is hardship, the rigor of the law is relaxed.” In other words, they will be excused as long as they do their best as determined by their own circumstances, for “Allah (certainly) will not impose on a soul a burden it has no strength to bear.” 

This entry i wrote is definitely a subtle reminder for us (i was a lil too harsh in my respond in email sayin BUKALAH RUANG MINDA, wahai orang melayu cos obviously the ugly remark was instigated by a Malay person...errkss but i apologised for my own bad deed in that sense) to:

-Stop making this vet-in-training look like she is committing some kind of a big sin or doing some kind of shame to Islam

-Please have a more open-mind and do not judge her acts with derogatory remarks

-Please have a sense of compassion for all animals, pigs and dogs are afterall creations of Allah swt too

-And May Allah shed Light on everyone and guide u to the right path.

As I have also mention in my email, my sincere apologies if i have offended anyone with regards to this. There are some things i juz cannot stand from keeping mum, especially when it comes to others' reputations when they are actually doing something good.

And may the ladies keep strong in their studies and see success in their pursuits!

 

Saturday 18 August 2007

Weapons of MASS ENGAGEMENT

That is what Muslims have, yet there are a whole bunch of us who are not using them. We are so used to the idea of branding and labelling and putting values and degrees to relationship with others, be it with fellow Muslims or non-Muslims, that it weakens our very essence of being a Muslim.

Being a Muslim is not only being devoted in worship to the One God but it is also about making good relations with All mankind, be they Chinese, ang mohs, blacks, Arabs, rich, poor, Christians, Jews or the Unbelievers. Now u realise that all these italised words are labels, and should we keep discriminating and judging people in such manner, it is difficult for us to practise true Islam, for in Islam, we recognise differences yet we are asked to honour, build relationships and mediate with others for the benefits of mankind.

I went to a public talk last night, by a guest speaker Imam Feisal Abdul Rauf, an Imam from America. He talked about globalisation, and how it is not a new phenomenon and how we can be better Singapore Muslims and Globalised Muslims. whatever titles/labels we are given, Singapore, Globalised or what, a Muslim, who wants to move forward, see progress and success, cannot be confined to narrow mentality (which are so widespread and easily haunting us now) and we outta recreate the livelyhood models established by our Khulafas. By this it doesn't mean that we have to have a "State of Islam" but we have to look at the examples how they interact and showed compassion to others. If we want and so demand our rights on tis earth for a piece of land that we could call a State of Islam so that we could do everythin by abiding Syariah Laws...we are no different from practisin Islamic Zionism! Tis idealogy of "State of Islam" is probably what i feel have motivated or inspired those radical islamic terrorists to go all out & "Jihad". And of course, the feeling of being oppressed and repressed is also a driving force for such rebellion...but did we remember how our own prophets were also given such treatments by those with authorities/who feel they are a threat? But I do not remember them rising in arms with vengeance and violence in their acts but only in supplications for the Mercy & Blessings of Allah swt.

And here we are in this era, in the heart of modernisation and globalisation, we should embrace them as those have in the times of Muhammad s.a.w and the Khalifas, and share Islam by practisin what the early Muslims have done. How did they thrive and Islam become so easily widespread? And why is it that more people are becoming Muslims even after the 9-11 event?

Remember, our beloved Prophet Muhammad s.a.w was put here as a mercy to all as stated in the following ayat: "We sent you not, but as a mercy for all creatures." (Al-Anbiyaa’ 21:107) 

and Allah has put us here not to look at each other with hate, jealousy or envy but

"O Mankind, We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know each other. Verily the most honored of you in the sight of God is he who is the most righteous of you" (Al-Hujurat 49:13)

"Hold fast to the rope of God all together, and do not separate. Remember God's blessing to you when you were enemies and He joined your hearts together so that you became brothers by His blessing. You were on the very brink of the pit of Fire and He rescued you from it. In this way God makes His Signs clear to you, so that hopefully you will be guided. "(Ali 'Imran: 103)

My Fellow brothers & sisters, each of us here have a role as an ambassador of Islam and as u pray today and raise your hands to Glorify Him, remember too, to doa for the well-being of all ur loved ones, be they Muslims or not and open ur hearts, ENGAGE with others & mediate to spread the goodness & beauty of Islam, which is Virtue & Truth.

For that let me just add one more Ayat to this entry:

"Invite them to the way of your Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious: for your Lord knows best, who have strayed from his path, and who receive guidance." (Al-Nahl: 125)

Let us open up & attack the world with our "weapons" as followers of the mercy to all: Compassionate, Loving, Virtuous, in the name of Allah, the Compassionate and Merciful

I hope by sharing a lil of what I have gained from the talk as well as a lil of my perspective from my knowledge, u can learn somethin abt Islam and be motivated/inspired too but in my eagerness of expressin/sharin of this religion & belief I hold dear, i seek ur forgiveness if i offend anyone in any aspect.

God Bless & Peace be with you~


 

No Cryin over Spilt Mocha

I had a certain desire to juz grab my lappytop today and plonk myself in a cosy cafe and work on a mini-project, i call it "ProjectFyz". kinda felt that a change in my workin environment might probably help stimulate some of my juice..eh not the P-juice ok..i meant my Creative Juice. Upon arrivin at Vivo City,  can't decide where to "park" myself in...Pacific Coffee or Gloria Jeans..hmm hmm...walked around...think...can't decide...ended up in Naturally Marketplace, a supermarket.hah.randomly walkin arond the aisle, thinkin of where to go and what could i juz buy from tis "import" supermarket when I received a call from a bride-to-be. Yakkin along the biscuits aisle when she told me that her honeymoon will be in Sydney & Melbourne! HAH...that got me all excited tellin her where to go when she is there and all...and there in front of me...Lo and Behold...TIM TAM Classic Dark..$3.70..GRAB!!...yak yak yak...cashed out. I walked past Gloria Jeans, another Sydney memory...wanna go in or not...hmm walk on...I decided to plonk myself in Pacific Coffee...hmm changed my mind..picked up my bag and head back to Gloria Jeans. I guess my afternoon is a tribute to life in Sydney...it's been half a year since we were back there...memories so dear...i still remember Dee hidin those TIM TAM in her room as some form of "rebel" movement towards a certain selfish, greedy someone..LoL. And Gloria Jeans, a Must coffee fix or thirst quencher wherever we go...and on a certain nite, the beautiful voice of a blind lady serenadin us live at the Epping branch was simply heartwarmin...

Amidst all the tough shit and feelin homesick, somehow a part of us was left back there in Sydney, even though it was juz a month, it was beautiful. And now that it is the Chinese 7th month where hellnotes and what-nots are startin to be burnt almost everywhere here in our neighbourhood estates, it reminded me of what i especially missed...the whiffs of eucalyptus almost everywhere we walk...such soothing scent that always make me feel at ease and peace...i guess for us who had spent the time together over there, we juz cannot let go of the treasured moments...juz like the guys and what they remember thru their NS trainin, the bittersweet memories juz linger on...

(tis "postcard" was made for Iyuan but now i wish i was back there again)

I worked through ProjectFyz with sips of White CHocolate Mocha, nibbles of my Tim Tam & the in-house Jazz music...great stimulants indeed and guess what? While i was workin on, i heard the jazzified rendition of Radiohead's Creep! Hoho! Weird to be snappin fingers/tappin foot to such lyrics ain't it? Hah...anyways i was totally soakin up the good vibes and kinda engrossed in my own bubble and voila~ i finished ProjectFyz and i get an Approval for it! Wheeehooo~~

On another note, for all my worryin of not bein able to pay my insurance premiums, phone bills, lil shoppin treats...I was offered 2 temporary job positions, all in a day, today. What can i say...ALHAMDULILLAH!

My day was beautiful with Your Grace & Mercy, My Lord...

 

Monday 13 August 2007

Nothin said Scientist!

Took the Quiz which Hafi posted on her blog...thot i needed it since right now, i'm totally bummed out at what I really wanna do and what I will be good at for a proper, serious career.

Hmmm check out the options that suit my personality:

Your Career Personality: Independent, People-Oriented, and Fun
Your Ideal Careers:

Bar owner
Bartender
Cheerleader
Event promoter
Flight attendant
Marketing consultant
Motivational speaker
Personal trainer
Real estate agent
Talk show host
Your Career Personality: Flexible, Good-Natured, and Energetic
Your Ideal Careers:

Actor
Dog walker
Elementary school teacher
Fashion designer
Interior decorator
Fundraiser
Musician
Personal shopper
Veterinarian
Wedding planner

Should I then juz plunge into somethin of my nature or push myself out of the waters and do somethin which is not me but what I dream to be? Cos right now, I feel that even though I wish to be someone in the Scientific scene, I am not sure if i'm that Intellectual for problem-solvin or Independent enough for it. I'd rather wanna have a career that allows me to use some creativity, have flexible time and workin or meetin with a buncha fun people rather than do meetings, work with carcinogenic reagents/substances and present papers of some kinda research.

One of the jobs that has been dwindlin at the back of my mind should i fail to be a proper Scientific person is to be a fitness instructor...and quite recently i thought since a bunch of my friends are in the mode of "Kahwin-Kahwin" there'll be a niche for wedding planner in me...yeah i can do shit work, contact n run here n there to cater for others juz to make them happy on their Weddin Day...i almost wanted to sign up for the course of becomin a Weddin Planner but i dunno if i'll be plungin in the right direction AND i have a Degree in Science for goodness sake! Whatever happened to my dream of helpin others find a cure to some of the most serious diseases/problems in the world??

Hmmm bugger bugger...Urghhh...

Wednesday 8 August 2007

Kaulah Segalanya (Not sung by Hazrul Nizam)

Rating:★★★★★
Category:Music
Genre: Other
Artist:Adam Azali


Tis is a tribute to you, Adam!
Didn't realise u've got ur song online...miss those good times where u keep on singin n singin n singin while waitin for class at RVPS to start or on our way to another school...and how ur bitchy stories and ur drama choreo always tickle me!

U r a STAR!
*SHINE ON*


Monday 6 August 2007

Graduates in the Greens




One for the memories...

Captured moments of nostalgia & joy with my fellow babes@Fort Canning.
Photo shots and works by Lela (http://lelamanja.multiply.com)

Shared moments of joy & bliss with my love@Mt Faber.
Photo shots by Mr Fyz, Rafeeqah & Iyuan.




For better or worse

Sometimes all one need is just a lil extra bit of Optimism, Enthusiasm & Effort to take that one big leap forward

It is Mind over matter.

If u don't mind, nothing matters.

Nothing matters more than the fact that I heart you, if u don't mind.

 

That Financial Adviser's Birthday~




Yeay!
Photos from outdoor shoot with my fellow Bachelorettes are in! Happy happy!
And we gotta see the Red Live Lobster in action@Fish & Co!
hehehe...Happy 26th Birthday Firus aka our beloved Financial Adviser!